Our Mission
Our mission is to provide a supportive, informative, and fun place for people to explore, ask questions, share new ideas, and discover for themselves that the body can be a rich source of pleasure, no matter how the penis shows up.
We also acknowledge and honor that feelings of isolation, vulnerability, grief, shame, frustration, and confusion often accompany erectile issues, be it your own or your partner's, and that offering knowledge, compassion, resources, and community are essential to well-being and our capacities for continued growth throughout the life journey.
Community & Resources
Come for the curiosity, stay for the camaraderie.
This is where learning gets lively.
We host conversations that bring people together to talk, laugh, and grow—because sexual health isn’t just personal, it’s communal.
Some people learn best on their own; others thrive in groups. Whether you’re here to listen, ask, share, or play, we welcome you.
For self-guided learning:
Start at "Our Video Corner." Here you'll find the Archive of Delightful Dickscussions, where real talk meets real pleasure.
We offer you honest, unfiltered conversations about penis pleasure, soft stigmas, and the beautiful mess of individualized arousal.
Each video brings our Poetic Manifesto to life—men, partners, and providers exploring what it means to stay curious when erections don’t follow the script.
This is where we get into the juicy stuff and transform the “D” in ED into Development, Discovery, and Delight.
Join our monthly events designed for real-time discovery and support.
We're curating open “ask anything” circles, skill-building workshops, partner support sessions and erotic open-mics!
Each gathering is a chance to connect, share stories, and explore new possibilities together. Let's shift the narrative about men and sexual health from isolation to connection
For those who learn through connection and live interaction:
For the seekers and link lovers:
Our crowd-sourced Resource Library connects you to a growing ecosystem of researchers, providers, activists and innovators who care about sexual health.
Explore tools, podcasts, and articles curated to help you learn, reflect, and take action — one link at a time.
If you have resources to share that have changed your attitudes, your actions, and your abilities please contact us.
If you ARE a resource, we'd love to connect.
Growing and Evolving
We began as Soft Cock Week—then Soft Cock Appreciation Week—a bold and cheeky spark meant to stir the pot and get ideas flowing.
As the community grew, we listened. Many people loved the honesty and nod to levity, but others asked for the same message delivered with a bit more discretion and sensitivity. And that’s what intimacy is all about—listening, adjusting, and letting things flow.
It Doesn’t Have To Be Hard is our juicy “yes” to evolution. Because it doesn’t have to be hard to listen and change course when pleasure and connection are the purpose.
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