Deep and Delightful Dickscussions
Welcome to the It Doesn't Have To Be Hard Video Library.
This is a library of celebration, exploration, and real talk.
Delightful Dickscussions brings together honest, unfiltered conversations about penis pleasure, soft stigmas, erotic skill-building, and the messy beauty of individualized arousal. Here you will find the full archive from our past years as Soft Cock Week and new featured videos as we continue to grow.
Each video is our Poetic Manifesto come to life, living proof that It Doesn’t Have to Be Hard to stay curious, feel pleasure, learn new erotic skills, and find alternative approaches to sexual wellness.
It’s a vault of tools, truths, and turn-ons shared by phenomenal people who bring knowledge, compassion, levity, and deep respect to bodies of all shapes, states, and sensitivities. Here you'll discover:
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Unscripted interviews with men, partners, and providers exploring what it means to stay curious when erections don’t follow the script
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Men speaking truths, breaking open the stigmas, and celebrating softness
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Erotic education that centers the whole arousal system — with tools to hack it and handle it
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Storytelling and somatic coaching to bring you closer to your own body (and your partner’s)
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Support for partners and providers — whether you're here to learn, witness, or join the conversation
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Guidance on how to explore the wisdom the body is trying to tell you and the possibilities it has to share
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A space where softness isn’t a failure, it’s a feature — and everyone is welcome to learn, play, and reimagine sexual health on their own terms
This is where we transform the ‘D’ in ED into Development, Discovery, and Delight.
Every video is a reminder: It doesn’t have to be hard, we got you!
































