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Deep and Delightful Dickscussions
Welcome to the It Doesn't Have To Be Hard Video Library. 

This is a library of celebration, exploration, and real talk.


Delightful Dickscussions brings together honest, unfiltered conversations about penis pleasure, soft stigmas, erotic skill-building, and the messy beauty of individualized arousal. Here you will find the full archive from our past years as Soft Cock Week and new featured videos as we continue to grow.

Each video is our Poetic Manifesto come to life, living proof that It Doesn’t Have to Be Hard to stay curious, feel pleasure,  learn new erotic skills, and find alternative approaches to sexual wellness.
It’s a vault of tools, truths, and turn-ons shared by phenomenal people who bring knowledge, compassion, levity, and deep respect to bodies of all shapes, states, and sensitivities. Here you'll discover:

  • Unscripted interviews with men, partners, and providers exploring what it means to stay curious when erections don’t follow the script

  • Men speaking truths, breaking open the stigmas, and celebrating softness

  • Erotic education that centers the whole arousal system — with tools to hack it and handle it

  • Storytelling and somatic coaching to bring you closer to your own body (and your partner’s)

  • Support for partners and providers — whether you're here to learn, witness, or join the conversation

  • Guidance on how to explore the wisdom the body is trying to tell you and the possibilities it has to share

  • A space where softness isn’t a failure, it’s a feature — and everyone is welcome to learn, play, and reimagine sexual health on their own terms

This is where we transform the ‘D’ in ED into Development, Discovery, and Delight.
Every video is a reminder: It doesn’t have to be hard, we got you! 

Getting Handsy! Confidence & Confidence Using Your Hands For Helping  Partners with ED w/Lee & Erica
01:34:44
What Turns Me On? The 5 Erotic Blueprints and Male Arousal with Jessie Fresh & Erica Leroye
01:10:45
Sex Toys! Opening up the Pleasure Chest for Play and Connection with Carl the Toy Guy
01:33:37
Adding Voice & Sound to Your Sexual Toolbox:  The Hum's Hidden Power with Jill Carnay & Erica Leroye
01:12:16
Relax & Enjoy! Use Hypnosis to Love Your Soft Cock with Dr. Amy Marsh
01:31:32
SCW Podcast - Episode 5 - Erica Leroye and Masturbation
01:45:15
Venous Leak: The Often Unknown &  Undertreated Root of ED with Nigel Shaw & Erica Leroye
01:16:53
Testosterone:  Understanding the Role T Plays in Sexual Wellbeing with Dr. Justin Smitherman & Erica
01:04:58
SCW Podcast - Episode 1 - Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy and Prostate Cancer with Dr Susie Gronski
45:58
SCW Podcast - Episode 4 - Mish Middelmann and the Power of Peer Support
49:26
Men Supporting Men: What We Can Learn from Prostate Cancer Support Groups with Billy Hatzichristos
01:01:59
Breaking the Stigmas of Softness: Mens Mental & Physical Well-Being Courtney Brame & Erica Leroye
01:26:22
The Heart of Masculinity: Finding Support in Groups of Men with Percy Hawkes
01:13:55
Societal and Cultural Cock-Blocks: Finding the Levity Within the Gravity of It All with Zach Budd
01:22:04
SCW Podcast - Episode 7 - Dr Joe Kort and Dealing with Shame in Sex
48:35
SCW Podcast - Episode 2 - Rock the Bedroom with Lee Jagger
01:01:40
Softness and Porn: Takeaways for Flow, Function, and Fun! JetSetting Jasmine, King Noire & Erica
01:34:28
Seeking Soft Cock Erotica and Expanding Sensual Explorations with Erica Leroye and Mish Middelmann
01:19:50
Asexuality and Expansive Ideas on Intimacy and Connection with Aubri Lancaster
01:16:04
SCW Podcast - Episode 6 - Adelina Adler and Reframing Sex
01:15:07
SCW Podcast - Episode 3 - A Personal Story with Kyle Hoffman
01:23:13
Got Soft Cock Shame?  - JoyOfASoftCock com
20:15
Soft Cock Play and Why We Love Them 2 with Michelle Renee, Erica Leroye and Shameless Sex Pod #372
01:11:37
Soft Cock Appreciation Is A Thing! Here's What You Need to Know
01:11:50
Episode 27: Embracing Softness: Redefining Erectile Disappointment
58:57
The Intimacy Lab Podcast - Episode 5 - Adelina Adler
01:38:28
EP23: Michelle Renee and Soft Cock Week
40:16
Soft Cock Week Sex + STL - Kendra Holliday and Michelle Renee
56:15
Replay of the 2023 Soft Cock-Tail Mixer Recorded Live
01:57:54
Soft Cock Week - Soft Cock-Tail Mixer
01:58:56
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